i don't know how to attach links but i use read the links and sticky notes on this forum as well as read the info on the rsdsa and american rsdhope websites. i hope it's ok to mention them without a link. if not i will delete them. sorry. i just don't know how to attach links. hope you and your brother can find a way to cope with your rsd together. he sounds like a very caring person just like you. i am sure you will work it out together because there is so much love between you. hope this helps you and your brother a little and is ok to post. take care.