Dear Debi,
I am so sorry you are hurting, on so many levels.
Wish I could just beam myself to you and sit at your kitchen table, have a cup of coffee and pie and you could tell me what your husband was like. He sounds like a great guy, your Bubba.
We had my Dad at his home for the final months with hospice care.
It is hard to shake those final memories but, we had a literal trunkload of photos and old films, filled with happy memories and we looked at them together, as a family.
It was so healing. We picked out our favorites pics and had copies made....
Dad standing on a glacier in Alaska....Dad in pic with all his grandkids....Dad working in his beloved garden.
It may be too soon but when you are ready...it may help.
You are in my prayers, dear one.
D.
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Originally Posted by St George 2013
And I hurt from the top of my head to the end of my toes !
Unless I stay on top on my oxycodone my pain spikes to a 10 very quickly. I guess with SFN, osteo and CTN in my wrist it's to be expected. I can't remember the last time it was this bad.
Maybe it's due to all the stress I've been under ?
I just miss him so badly. Yesterday afternoon it had been 4 weeks.....4 weeks is the last time I saw him and it's so sad. I try so hard to remember him not in Hospice but it's hard. That whole weekend was just gut wrenching.
Thanks as always for listening to me.
Debi from Georgia
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