Originally Posted by Diandra

Dear Debi,
I am so sorry you are hurting, on so many levels.
Wish I could just beam myself to you and sit at your kitchen table, have a cup of coffee and pie and you could tell me what your husband was like. He sounds like a great guy, your Bubba.

We had my Dad at his home for the final months with hospice care.
It is hard to shake those final memories but, we had a literal trunkload of photos and old films, filled with happy memories and we looked at them together, as a family.
It was so healing. We picked out our favorites pics and had copies made....
Dad standing on a glacier in Alaska....Dad in pic with all his grandkids....Dad working in his beloved garden.

It may be too soon but when you are ready...it may help.

You are in my prayers, dear one.
D.