RSD ME,

Your commitment to your brother is admirable and should be held up to others as an example. Never stop loving him.

However, it is a fine line between being supportive and your brother feeling that you are pushing him. Always remember it is your purpose to hold up a light and lead the way. No-one can be forced in a direction they do not want, no matter how beneficial.

Never use the phrase 'You need to…' . Instead, show the benefits of what you are proposing, softly and calmly.

I do hope, for both your benefits, that this state of affairs does not continue too long.

Thinking of you.

Dave.