I guess i qualify as a care giver. I was vdw at "the other place". My MIL has just been diagnosed with a form of leukemia, she also has a lung infection that mimics TB. My FIL has slight dementia. They live in a retirement place which i work at. I'm an activities person in the alzheimers/ assisted living section. My MIL has been in the hospital now for almost a month so my husband an i have been taking care of my FIL. I also have a 16 yr old son with tourette syndrome, and a 13 year old daughter.
Between my job and my inlaws i'm quite busy with the elderly...