Good comments, David. I just want to emphasis one phrase
The grace road is when instead of trying we are trusting......
Most of us at one time or the other spin our wheels as we try to live the Christian life, or live up to someone else's or even or own expectations, but the Christian life is lived, by allowing Christ to live it through us. We have to trust him to do that. How? Just let go and let Him do it, and he does.
Judy