Feebs, I am so sorry. Yes, I would say you are a caregiver.

I went thru this with my Mom. Hospice is good, but sometimes I wished they didn't say so much, or the wrong thing.

I puzzeled over that for a long time. I think they are only trying to prepare us for the end. It's hard to even say it. My heart is very heavy for you and your family right now. My prayers are with you.

One thing with mom, she wanted to be at home. I truely didn't want this but she did so that is how we did it. As the end came, she was surrounded by her family and everything she had called home for a long time.

Maybe if you could think that your dad is with his family and that would be what he wanted. I may not be right, but if I can help, listen, please call on me, ok? my love, JoJo