@Megs - Thank you again. I'm working on not being that person, and actually had a long conversation with my best friend about random stuff (including her schooling) it was nice and refreshing! I currently take trazodone for sleep and it still allows REM, I wake up and I've found its mostly due to pain, since I've figured it out, I just change some of my pain meds around and it seems to be working better, thank goodness!

As for any natural supplements, I read up on them through the web on trusted medical sites and will even ask my doctor before taking. I don't want any silly reactions or something. Thankfully I don't want children, so that's not a worry.

@JV - I know anger has major issues. I'm waiting to hear back from the pain center. My new GP is going to prod them along if we don't hear anything from them in the next couple of weeks, seeing as he feels that its unfair to me (that's probably not the word for it) to wait.