Dear T-Mom,
My heart aches for you and your family. I have had my own medical misadventures and I know how terribly frustrating and exhausting it can be. It is especially hard when you feel there is something being missed. That thing with the gauze would drive me nuts too. Your son has been through so terribly much!
I am sorry you had tom come join us but it is a soft place to land. Please come see us on the CRPS forum. It is great for sharing and support. Several of us, self included, get ketamine in differing protocols.
You and your son are in my prayers. I hope that healing and restoration find you both.
Sending hugs and healing love,