Hello Tomsox,

I can't speak directly to your situation but I wanted to say hi and welcome. I am sorry that your family is going through this. Many medical events are a loss but I am sure that your husband's brings unique challenges.

I hope that you are able to get the support you need, both here and in your community. A therapist who deals with illness and loss might be of help in transitioning through the changes. Things like this absolutely effect a marriage but it is amazing what two people who genuinely love one another can adapt to.

Best to you and your husband. I am sending thoughts of healing and comfort and hope that he makes improvement over time. Be kind to yourself and to him. It is a tender time during the adjustment but you will come through it.