Hey Sista, I'm sorry I wasn't here to welcome you.
I too have Fibro and you'll find the fibromyalgia people here just wonderful people.
I COMPLETELY understand what you are talking about. When I was first diagnosed, it was almost like going through the loss of a loved one. I know...we look perfectly normal...unless people bother to look really close and recognize the look of pain.
You'll find a lot of good info at the Fibro forum, which I'm assuming by now you've found. BUT, in case you haven't,
here it is.