Welcome to NeuroTalk, April! It sure sounds like you have your hands full with the little one. I'm sorry you have to go through this with her but also glad she has such a caring mom who is prepared to learn and do all that you can to meet her needs.
This is a terrific community and I'm sure you'll find yourself enveloped in support in short time. Just let us know how we can help, and I'll see you around.