hey Ada,
No one has ever been refused help on this forum, nor will they be.
I claim the right of redress on just one point, since you are referring to my post - a problem about the editing process is that it makes it easy to misinterpret what remains of the post and to misremember the original. What I said was "I don't want to encourage you further in a cycle or pattern that seems to me to be potentially harmful and getting you nowhere."
Rather a different thing.
IHH, your point about using the "search" button more is excellent advice.
Joan, I thoroughly agree with you; Chemar, yes let's get back to doing what we do best...helping people, with whatever tools we have at our disposal.
all the best