NeuroTalk Support Groups - View Single Post - Today, 12-29, is my 36th Wedding Anniversary-Bubba gone 4 months tomorrow

eva5667faliure · 12-29-2015, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by St George 2013

Just wanted to share with my friends on NT.

We married when I was 17 and he was 22 in a little white church on a hillside. We married at 12 noon.....I have no idea now why I picked that time.

We drove through Burger King on the way home from the wedding so my cousin could see us in our wedding clothes !

By that night we were at his mom's hanging out. Boy were they surprised to see us

Since that time we've had many anniversary 'vacations'. Usually to Panama City Beach. Lots of eating out and 'chilling'.

I regret that we didn't go somewhere last year but my SFN was not under any type of control and I just could not ride for 5 hours.

My daughter and 2nd ex-daughter in law

are taking me to dinner tonight and have invited a few of my former co-workers.

I'm not sad today and I thought I would be.

The last 2 meltdowns I've had made me feel better instead of worse which I think is progress ?

Tomorrow is the test since it's the 4 month mark of Bubba's passing

Thank all of you for being here for me during this difficult time.

Debi from Georgia

always at your side

guess what

today is my ex-husbands birthday
december 29, 1984
our youngest Christine
who by the way is Eva's mommy
my daughter
was an infant
he got looped
argument ensued
into the next morning
it did not stop
tomorrow will be 12/30/84
was our last day living together
and divorced him early 1986
been man free since then to date
what lives we live
and what dates too mean for us
amazing
God Bless
love
me