I am so sorry to see you struggling so much

, but I am still holding on to hope for you.
There may be options yet.
Could you consider a boarder like a nursing student, early education or social work type to trade your daughter's room for assistance with meals and help around the house, etc? I would've been really grateful for an opportunity like that.
Would being in Chicago bump you up on the list any? You have family there right? I am wondering if there is a more intensive program with an opening or one coming soon. I don't know that once a week will get you to your goals as much trouble as you are having.
Can you fire any of your doctors? Easier said than done with insurance sometimes. I ditched the ones who weren't helpful and had no interest in moving me forward.
Any thoughts on those resources I sent along a while back? I didn't start getting help till I went that route. Just a thought....
Hang in there Girl. I am still rooting for you and sending prayers.