Thanks all,

I do see a psychologist - for about 2 years now.

I added some info to the first post for those who may not be as familiar with CRPS and that my wife and I had a good conversation tonight that was productive and she seems to be more understanding now.
It also helped for her to remember my poor test results on cognitive function, memory and nerve conduction that the doctors attribute to CRPS, not something I am doing purposefully or through laziness.