that sounds like a workout. i can't imagine sleeping while someone is watching me. i would be so conscious of them, i would never sleep. i hope you get some answers from whatever info they got. sleep is so important. i have slept well for years taking tranxene. if not for that, i would be horrible throughout the day.
you sound so depressed at the loss of your husband. i'm so sorry for you. please take care of you now though, that is what your husband would want you to do. joan