Not sure where DB is at day wise, might be 5, could be 7? I know he has appeared to be sober, definitely at home and been active after we had a little "set to" when he goaded and laughed at me going to carers group on Tuesday. Sadly he does little in and around the house nowadays, spends most of his days off in a deep depression funk and in bed, but, does manage to drag himself out and attend the gym and pump weights for a session (Used to be an active time to attend the pub, gym for 30, pub for 60). Our "words" prompted him to blow vac outside, vacuum inside, clean the pond pump filters, empty the dishwasher and brush the dogs. A very pleasant surprise when I got home at 10pm. This weekend he is off and it will be challenging with 40c temperatures, he will be wanting to go to the gym and that challenge to resist the pull pub wise will be enormous.