Thank you for your kind offer, Bobbi.
Hi, Annie, it's good to meet you. It would be good to know some of the issues you're facing here that are software/guideline related so that we can help as much as absolutely possible. This issue is one of the main reasons for the discussion thread.
You can place them here, in the discussion thread, or PM me/Doc John.
If I understand correctly, one issue for you is the usage of the trigger icon itself. I'm sure we can work with that. For example, you could use the word "trigger" in the title of the post you might make that you feel could contain triggering content. However, that wouldn't keep you from viewing it in a thread when it's being used by another. Another possibly is to change the trigger icon itself. Just thinking out loud initially.
We are still working on getting things as comfortable as we can. It might be that we have to remove the trigger icon and replace it with something else, or use the word "trigger" in the title.
There are several possibilities, and we will certainly help as we can.
KD