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Originally Posted by Icehouse
Deja vu.
Yes, stop enabling him and let him hit his own rock bottom. He may lose his job, he may end up in jail, but he will NOT stop dragging you down until you let go.
Walk away, but be there when his rock bottom is the foundation on which he rebuilds his life.
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Thanks Icehouse, it seems to be a unanimous view that my BIL needs to virtually sink or swim at this stage.
We have friends and acquaintances who still a let us know how and what he is doing. Some agree with the action we are taking but a few think privately we could do more. What that would be I just don't know
In any case there have been no incidents involving us this week. Fingers crossed.
Thanks everyone and good luck in your own journey.