Hello and welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.

There are a number of forums that would fit your needs. I'll post some of those below. They're direct links so you can just click on them.

I probably can't help you with ideas regarding day to day support because I'm in Australia, but I'm sure there will be others here who might be able to direct you to possible resources.

SCS & Pain Pumps Forum

Chronic Pain Forum

Peripheral Neuropathy Forum

Sleep Apnea & Sleep Disorders Forum

I'm sure you will find information and support from the members here. I'm sorry that I can't help more.

take care.

P.S. I just had another thought and looked in the Caregiver's Forum
At the top there is an information post containing websites and other resources that may be useful to you both.

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread1404.html
From Caregiver's Forum - Useful Sites and Resources