Dahlek I hear that your hurt and upset but I don't think either anyone here would do it on purpose. Everyone cares for your well being and understand the pain. Maybe not exactly on specific area but pain is pain and its physically and mentally bad. I think its good though to express how you feel so it doesn't eat at you. As for the doc issue I think some just have a more caring disposition that makes you feel more comfortable which helps. I often wonder what some of these docs social lives are as they have no interpersonal skills. There so book smart but common smart seems to lack often.
Melody for the bra issue I think you have a homeade business in the making.