Hi Debi
Sorry to hear you're having such a rough time at present - I hope your visit to the doc brought you some relief.
Re the pool deck - suggest you let your fingers do the walking - here's a link to one website with lots of ideas - there's also lots of other sites if you google 'pool deck' :
https://www.pinterest.com/explore/swimming-pool-decks/
Here's another link related just to 'above ground pool decks' - I'm guessing that's what you're having:
https://www.google.co.nz/search?q=ab...HakAA7UQsAQIGQ
If you see something you like you can either print out a photo or just bookmark the site and show your contractor on Sat.
Take care and hope you get some restful sleep.