Thanks for the update. This is a big decision and would be anxiety provoking for anyone. If you have had serious doubts and really felt ambivalent it is just as well that it was put off for now. It is easy to get caught up in the momentum sometimes and just be carried forward. This isn't like deciding to get undercabinet lighting in your kitchen. The wiring is a lot more personal.

Were you given any options or plan for working on things the psychologist recommended? Since it is related to a medical procedure can you get counseling covered? Or can they at least give you homework of some kind and a detailed recommendations on what you need to do?

I am so glad you found a PM who is willing to do outside reading. That's great!

Hang in there and breathe easy. You are on reprieve from making a decision. Sometimes that is a relief if we aren't ready.

for you,