Thanks a ton everyone! I had a beautiful afternoon with my grandparents. Lunch was wonderful, I ate (too) much and then we had a lovely stroll through the mall- though my grandmother hadn't had *any* experience pushing wheelchairs, so I ended up with my footrest (luckily not my FEET) into a dew displays (pop did better). We had some good laughs and I had a fun time with my grammy in Bath & Body and Claires~ she had no clue what most of the stuff there was!
So, it was lovely. Ahh, the cake- ice cream cake with balloons. Fine, I'll just show you the pic, so you can see the cake for yourself:

(that's one of my little sis' with me)
I got off easy- we had NO cake candles in the house at all, so we used two tea light candles.
I got to see a *wonderful* firework display and I had as good of a birthday as possible by resting in between and trying not to flare up anything. I ate, talked and bought a few things (ahh, I LOVE clearance!! I bought EVERYTHING- just stuff at Claires and B & B- on clearance!). I found nifty head bands that pull my hair off of my (allodynia ridden) face! I received some fun stuff for my birthday. Thank you all here for making such special notes here for me- what a sweet gift!
FUN!!