Is he mentally ill besides being an alcoholic...I can't believe i just wrote that.
It sounds as if he needs help so badly that he is destroying the two of you.
you said he has a wonderful sense of humor and loves to play with the cats and loves his job but where does dr jekel come from. it sounds as if you are always walking on a tight walk wire. he sounds insanely jealous. has he always been like that. I know it freaks me out when people won't accept that i am bipolar and it brings issues that are out of my control no matter how hard i try to control them. it just makes them worse because they get stored up. why can't they understand? You said he has work buddies. He isn't totally dependent on you.
Can you love somebody too much?
Love
bobby
I can't believe i wrote this....but i am bipolar