You didn't write anything wrong at all Bobby. It was a reasonable response for anyone to make. Thank you.

I think he has something besides alcoholism going on. I don't know what. Hard to tell with all the alcohol. Definitely an anxiety disorder though and I think that's where some of the milder outbursts come from. He needs to see someone but won't. I got him to go once after I was dx with MS. He went to 1 tdoc appointment and to the pdoc twice and stopped. I mentioned him going again about a year ago… bad idea. He would ****ing flip out if I ever suggested it again.

He has work friends. He doesn't see them out of work, but calls and texts one of them a lot. He does not love his job. He mostly comes home railing about it, but he has some good days here and there.

Between his drinking, temper, and sometimes controlling behavior, he's starting to remind me of my father. My father is much, much worse, but it took him practice to get him to where he is. I don't like this feeling at all.

I forgot to mention I'm 9 months sober today.