Catra

Thank you! You really helped me tonight. I appreciate your response. You made many good points. I do need to focus on what I can do. I was able to work in the garden and clear one little space of weeds, while sitting in a chair. I need to make some choices about what I can do, ways to make it easier, and much smaller. Accept that I can not do what I did before. Last year at this time I was sitting in a wheelchair, unable to even walk in the garden.

I was walking, without the cane, and then all these back and hip problems, it is discouraging. My back became weak from not doing anything. I do know I have to keep moving. I need to accept that my husband is not going to help me in the garden, it is hard enough for him to keep the yard mowed, as he has back problems. Just saying that is helping me accept it. Reality check. Thank you Catra.
peace
zinnia