i share the same birthday as your daughter,.... i was going to say/list all the things/problems i have(self centred idiot that i am for even thinking that), but, losing a child... i have no idea how to reply....
other than this.... i would love to give you a cuddle(hug)
if you ever get the chance take advantage of a "cuddle" scottish word,its the best,warmest most genuine thing you will ever experience.
tc steash