Your nap really doesn't count. I'm sorry you didn't get a lot of sleep, Bizi
It must be tough to have to walk on egg shells in the am. I always feel guilty if I wake my husband up, too. It sounds like Hattie isn't helping matters either.

My husband's alarm goes off between 3:30-4:30am during the week and somehow I've managed to block it out, but some mornings he's loud, and I have a hard time going back to sleep in the morning because my anxiety gets my mind going immediately. It sucks. On the weekends Rocky walks all over us and it's impossible to ignore him because he weighs 26lbs.