Thank you ladies :group hug:
I don't mind you laughing in the least Bobby.

He will hold money, everything he's done for me in the past, and anything he does for me in the future over my head. It's the way he is. The nice thing is if we get in a fight now, I can get in the car and drive away.

I need to completely clean out the 3 cat boxes so I have to get a big bucket of litter to fill them after. It's like pulling teeth trying to get him to the pet store. I mentioned last night I could go today and someone at the store could put the litter in my basket, and then into my trunk for me. He got angry for some reason and said, "I don't know why you need to involve other people in our business." WTF?! So no one else is allowed to help me at all so I have to remain completely dependent on him… that's so controlling and territorial he may as well just pee on me! I haven't decided whether or not I'm going to go anyway. It's unlikely he'll take me until Saturday and the boxes will need topping off before then if I don't change them. I think it's silly to buy litter I'm going to throw away in a few days anyway.


The dealer had the parts for my car. They said with the oil change the wait would only be about an hour so I sat in the waiting room. I was there from 10:15am to just past 1pm. It guess it still made more sense than getting a ride home and getting one back though. They got me for $45 for an oil change and a tire rotation. It's been a long time, but I thought that was pretty steep.

While I was outside smoking a butt, I found a $10 bill. I felt guilty picking it up, but it ended up paying for lunch at McDonalds. I should have known better than to eat that crap. I felt like I was having a heart attack afterwards… bad karma I guess.