I noticed the folds in my eyelids were different.. I noticed after getting out of a hot shower and attempting to put on eye shadow..I had just had a baby, so i too, thought i was just tired.. and then it got worse, so i thought, well maybe thyroid eye issues (that's common with post partum after all)... then after showers I was having trouble even standing up afterwards.. carrying my kids.. finally holding silverware, flipping switches, breathing.. and my face looked awful (like skin melting off of my skull- the pics still freak me out)! Good times