Frogga
I've been lurking around reading your posts and you are truly inspiring.....I am so happy for you, what a perfect situation....what are the odds of neighbors like that and a garden to view from your window....Wow the universe just blows me away sometimes.
Your Mom will come around, with 4 kids I've had to let go so many times but I do know us Moms only want the best and your joy will be contagious for her...it will be good for both of you

Jeanne