Having someone come in and clean and at least prep some of the food for meals (like cutting up vegetables or fruit) is a great help!!! I have an aide that comes and helps me a couple of times a week. She does light housework and preps some of my food as well as does other things for me if I need it (such as going to the grocery store). You may find that just that little bit of help will allow you more energy to do more things.

I have not tried the Wal-Mart pick up thing but my mom has. She had no complaints about it at all. There are a couple of grocery stores in town that deliver and that helps. There is a minimum purchase and a delivery charge but sometimes that's worth it. Do you have a store that delivers in your area?

It does sound like a combination of things are contributing to your crash. I think all that you have been through with Charlie is a huge factor and it has effected everything else. I wish I lived closer so I could come over and help you a little. I would do it in a heartbeat! Hang in there and try to rest and take care of you!