Doydie
It time to accept help. I did and I'm not even taking care of anyone but myself!
The food delivery is an excellent idea. It has saved me many times.
Here is the company I use:
Schwan's(R) Online Grocery Delivery Service | Delicious Food Direct to Your Door. I cannot say enough good things about them. And.....their food is deee-licious! And Gerry was right.....their ice cream is addictive!
I hope you get some help, Doydie. You're not doing yourself or Charlie any favors by exhausting yourself. It takes us MSers longer to refuel after wearing ourselves out.
I'm worried about you so please don't overdo it and look into getting some help. It's a sign of strength not failure.