Oh gosh, Sue, you had me really laughing so hard about falling asleep.. then bumping your head on the keys.. bump when ya woke up!! HA HA..ya still a sence of humor there, Lady!! your fun!Oh my yes, sue I was so very exhausted just getting ready for the reception.. to top it off my husband, Bill was telling me to hurry!! my butt.. the weiner ;0) LOL You had me crackin up also about those that don't have RDS, cry most likely if they even get a hang nail!! LOL I will lay low of unsupporting people, my sister too.. if I have to. your right, I don't need this kind of understanding. And when you do try to understand them or tell them a little tad bit about this RSD.. it's like you can see their expression.. like I'm making it up, or I'm nuts, like I wrote in my post. oh well.. their problem.. not mine, eh? LOL :0) I do hope that you feel better soon too, Sue!! Love ya! love, Desi <3