Hi Jeannie! "crushed spirit" is soooooooooo what I received from my sister and a few "other family members, my neice, 2 BIL I come from a large family, and everyone is doing their "THING".. but if the chips are down, they will be here for me!! I hope. I know I was and will ALWAYS be there for them!! Thanks for saying that naps are a must as it is the pain that we need naps for! Thought I was the ONLY ONE who needed them. Now, some days.. when I work around the house, I mean hard exhausting work.. I am good for 10 naps a day.. might even be in bed all day, except to take a shower or a nice epsom salt bath, eat, get in jammies and plop this body in bed and watch t.v. and fall asleep when the first commercial comes on. I wanted to watch this good movie called Little Darlin's (one of my fav. old ones) and fell asleep when the first scene came on.. LOL Oh well, that's the breaks huh.. LOL Love ya! love, Desi