Pamela - You have been through a lot. I hope you have seen a doctor about this recent episode. Things with the stomach can go bad really fast. Obstructions can be so dangerous and, as I am sure you are well aware, life threatening. The good ole' NG tube is no fun but it is need to give your bowel a rest.

I am also, so sorry your mom treated you as she did. That is so heartbreaking. I think distancing yourself right now, until you feel better, is a good idea. Being the scapegoat in family dynamics is really, really hard. The best way to prevent some of it is to limit your contact with them, if you can. It sounds as if you are the scapegoat in your family. I hope your mom will respect you and give you your space so you can heal.

I will keep you in my prayers. Please post an update when you can.