Pam,
You going straight on with the issues confronting DB; his outbursts; his little innuendos deliberately causing you to wonder what he means....did he or didn't he? It's apparently his way of not denying or admitting. You are the woman who chased down, what apparently could have been a terrible incident at work, causing you not to even think for a moment what this could all mean to you physically and mentally. Yes; DB said this was irresponsible, etc., etc., but because you are that woman, you are still there tackling what for many would be almost impossible to deal with. He, hopefully, prayerfully, will one day realize how fortunate he is to be married to "that woman".

Gerry