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Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Georgia
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Location: Georgia
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Originally Posted by Ravenclaw
Thank you for your reply all. It's just hard, you know.
Sometimes I catch myself pushing tears away, that's probably not very wise, but I just want the pain to stop.
I think this weekend I'll visit his grave.
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Just wanted you to know that I do that too.....keep the pain deep down within my soul. I try not to let it come out too much because it's so painful...physically. Like you....I think it's not a good thing ?
They are with us everyday. In our hearts and lives.
My husband's urn sits on the entertainment center.....I talk to him and kiss his urn on occasion....silly I know but makes me feel better.
He would want some of his ashes scattered in 5 different places we loved but so far I've been unable to do that. Maybe one year I'll have the emotional strength to get that done for him/us.
Take care and please don't be too hard on yourself. You did everything you could and loved him heart and soul.
Debi from Georgia
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