Thank you everyone! The big family birthday parties are the weekend of November 5th (they are combo parties...one for each side of the family with another little one that has birthdays around the same time...so less pressure and workload for me)...so her actual birthday will just be me, her, and her dad. The timing is working out well in that regard.

I will definitely let you guys know as the time gets closer. As always...thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and support.