Billye, just saw this thread - is Cami doing any better about the buzzing? One of the cats I lost last year at 16 got stung by a bee while we were sitting on the patio reading - got a week or so she woldnt come back outside at all - then started to again - and felt safe I guess when she was close to me cause would crawl up and wrap herself around my head (luckily she was little, only 6 pounds) - and slowly developed courage again.... I know its impossible for you to pick her up - mabye just letting her cuddle - etc... as you have been doing is the best thing - sure seemed to help my little girl.....
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