Pam,
Is there any chance of getting in touch with anyone in particular that DB appeared to respect during his weekend rehab/retreat? I believe you were present the closing night.

Physically and emotionally Pam, you need to seek counseling. There is only so much you can handle on your own; even for someone with a strong determined personality. Thank you for sharing with us. Please do continue.

Just a thought; DB was planning to visit his father during the holidays. Do you think DB might consider going for his visit with father now instead of waiting for the holidays? It might get his mind off the present "funk" having something to plan for now....

Praying for both of you....

Gerry