Hi aspiemom,
I didn't see your post here until now so hadn't replied. My son is 20. He wasn't diagnosed correctly until he was almost 14. He had some other conditions and his doctors put everything down to that unfortunately. Finally I was able to have him assessed by someone who is very familiar with Asperger's Syndrome and we didn't look back.

Anyway, just wanted to say "G'day" to you. This autism forum isn't always very busy ... just letting you know.
take care,
Lara