I'm glad you called your twin. I think even the idea that the stay there will be shorter lived will help you cope
Spreading yourself out in general is a good plan. You're less likely to get into spats with your hosts that way.
I hope you had fun at trivia, you know I'm a whole pizza girl, too!
I'm glad you just have wrapping left to do and your shopping is over. It must be a big relief.
I hope that Jeff will be doing at least the first leg of the driving since you will probably be tired from working, and he's been finished with work for a few days. How many hotels/motels will you have to stop at along the way?