Welcome as a new member!! But more importantly, I am so sorry about your dear husband's passing. It is always so hard but you were on vacation and ready to celebrate your 30th Anniversary!! No wonder you are having a flare.
I have a very dear friend I have met on Braintalk who has recently lost her husband and frankly, I don't know how you get through something like that. Again, you have my sympathy.

nancy-h