Hi bddouglas,
I am very sorry to hear your Daughter has NMO, how difficult for both of you
An excellent resource for NMO is The Guthy-Jackson Charitable Foundation. They do have a forum which will enable you and/or daughter to talk to others with NMO.
Home - The Guthy-Jackson Charitable Foundation
I know just a very little about NMO and that little bit is with NMO it's important to be treated with steroids. There is a blood test for NMO, a negative does not rule out NMO but a positive means NMO.