I've crashed n burned, up again at 4am to do the dogs n cats, fed, watered, cleaned up. Sat for a while and then decided I cant face work today. It's summer, I've put the a/c on along with the fan & got back into bed. Got up, cooked my own lunch as DB was pernickety, the pizza I made for him last night ready for his own lunch but he's being antsy over that as well. He doesn't like to face that since I've been home I've done the animals at least twice a day, cleaned the house, done the washing & put away, got his uniform ready done all that I can for a smooth running household and his funk which halted has fully descended. Very worried about his colleague, I get that, but he doesn't have to be pernickety. But here we are, he's just apologised so he must be able to see how hard I'm finding it.