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Old 04-10-2017, 08:01 AM
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It could be that she just plain forgot, but…

Do you remember how I said that sometimes I spoil good people and then end up feeling taken advantage of?
It could be that you have put her in the friend zone and she has forgotten that her primary purpose for being there is to take care of your housework.

I think that it would be a good idea to remind her right off the bat in a casual way when she gets there that she "forgot" to clean the bathroom as others have suggested. She needs to be reminded that you can be friendly, but she is still there to clean.


If you are seeing a pattern of conflict with others lately, you may be suffering from agitation, so it's a good idea to make sure you take your Klonopin. How is your mood? Are you still up?
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