I agree with your thinking Pam. He might feel; "well if she thinks I am drinking; I might as well drink".

If in the end, the "smell" does come back; without asking him or make if feel like you think he is; you might just want to mention to him "if you should ever have a drink or two; hopefully you will tell me and we can talk this over."

This has to be so hard for you to deal with in addition to all your other issues. Hopefully, getting the new carpeting will be a "pick me up".......for both of you.


Gerry